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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-05-06 03:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #4141 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4141 ⌋

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Re: Questions you can't ask IRL or online non-anon

(Anonymous) 2018-05-07 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
Yes. I've known my best friend since we were 12. We actually started celebrating anniversaries once we got past the 20 year mark, because we believe we're something to celebrate. We've been there for each other through middle school, high school, college, my grad school, her marriage, and her kid.

We don't get to see each other as much as when we went to school together, obviously, and having that long of a relationship takes a hell of a lot of work, especially when you start young and are there through the whole "figuring out who you are" process. Lord knows we ended up in very different places in worldview and lifestyle, but when you love someone you make the effort to talk and find the ways you can touch each other's hearts and lives. She disappeared pretty much for the first six months after she had her kid, because kid, and then for a few months after that because she started some intense cardiac surgery training, but you just gotta keep letting them know you're there even if it's just a little reminder that life does exist out of the sucking black hole that is an infant's needs.

In my case I knew we were around the new child/new job bend when she called me at 11 pm because I was the only person who she could count on to bitch to while wringing out bloody sponges after a 17 hour nightmare surgery. You get there, eventually.

Re: Questions you can't ask IRL or online non-anon

(Anonymous) 2018-05-07 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks for replying.

My best friend and I are coming up on our 23rd year of friendship. We met in pre-K.
We joke that we are twins all the time, and her family unofficially adopted me and have always been my family too. I'm not sure I would cope if I lost all of them, and I already love this kid too.

I hope we stay friends. I'm glad that you and your best friend have made it.

Re: Questions you can't ask IRL or online non-anon

(Anonymous) 2018-05-07 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
Knowing each other since pre-K? No way you're not staying friends. You're family.