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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-05-17 05:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #4152 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4152 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Mercedes Lackey]


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03.
[Inspector Javert]


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04.
[DJ Khaled and his wife Nicole Tuck]


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[Scarlett Johansson at the Met Gala]


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06.
[John Mulaney]


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07.
[Disney's Sword in the Stone]








Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 13 secrets from Secret Submission Post #594.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: There was an interview:

(Anonymous) 2018-05-17 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
So "praise" = oral sex?

Re: There was an interview:

(Anonymous) 2018-05-18 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
Gross.

I mean, if you're into oral sex as praise (and most men are), that's fine. But if you don't think that women can, do, or should get oral sex ad praise or as a "favor", that's gross.

I think for a lot of men, a woman going down on them is like the second ultimate vanilla-standard-sexual-practices sexual power trip (first being anal). I don't think everything is a double standard, but this is /defnitely/ a double standard plain and simple when a guy on the flipside will not go down or accept anything done to his body that isn't putting his dick in something. I'm not saying he should let his wife put a finger in his ass if he's not down for that, but it's a huge sexual blindspot for both men and women when you only experience putting your dick in a thing (man) or getting dicks put in you (woman) as valid uses of your sexy time.

If a guy is only into x and y, and a woman is only into x and y, good for them. But it's rarely that black and white...

Wait, I'm ranting. I'll cut my rant off here. /rant

Re: There was an interview:

(Anonymous) 2018-05-18 04:00 am (UTC)(link)
different nonny

i appreciate your rant and agree.

Re: There was an interview:

(Anonymous) 2018-05-18 05:28 am (UTC)(link)
Agreed. This is a good comment.