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fandomsecrets2018-05-21 06:51 pm
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(Anonymous) 2018-05-21 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)It's still fridging, and for some people the latter kind actually feels worst. Maybe someday we'll have more gender parity of protags and sacrifices and it'll just be a kind of tragedy that can happen, but today it's still a really shitty pattern for the Hero's girlfriend.
(All that said, I'm glad it's apparently Not Permanent, because that's usually boy territory, and I still want to see this movie. But I really object to the idea that because "he really loved her" or because she had a good character, that it was somehow less fridging. It totally still is.)
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(Anonymous) 2018-05-23 08:13 pm (UTC)(link)And I'm honestly really tired of the wink-wink nudge-nudge 'we're going to use a harmful trope but mention that we know it sucks, that makes it fine to still basically use it whole cloth, right?' that a lot of pop culture tries to get away with these days. I felt the same way about all of Ant-man's "lmao isn't it funny and bad this movie isn't about Wasp" lampshading. It's not that edgy, it's not that funny, it just means the writers kinda knew this was a lazy trope that hurt people but couldn't bother to think of anything better. In Antman's case, I could maybe accept that studio mandates forced the writers' hands, but I think deadpool had a lot more room to go out of the box.
Honestly the whole thing would bother me so much less if people stopped trying to defend it. It can be a good movie and still contain a lousy trope in a lousy form. It doesn't have to """not count""" somehow for deadpool to still be fun and worth seeing for lots of people.