[ SECRET POST #4171 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #4171 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.



__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.












Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 21 secrets from Secret Submission Post #597.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Fandom tropes irl

[(Anonymous)]

What fandom tropes, kinks, or cliches do you love in fic...but just doesn't work for you irl?

For me, I love fics where guys come in their pants because "It's so hot/They just can't take it!" But url, I think that be really messy to deal with and probably super embarrassing for the dude...

Re: Fandom tropes irl

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not really into noncon, so I'd have to say dubcon, because "safe, sane, and consensual" IRL.

Re: Fandom tropes irl

[(Anonymous)]

Dubcon is so weird for me because if it's done exactly "right" it hits my buttons just so, but it's such a bizarrely fine line for me that it can tip over from hot to NONONO or vice versa like that.

Re: Fandom tropes irl

[(Anonymous)]

Ayart

Yeah, that's kinda how I feel about it, too.

Re: Fandom tropes irl

[philstar22]

Anything super kinky. My fandom kinks in general are strong versions of what I like in real life. I would not be into full on BDSM in real life, but it is super hot in fic. I also don't think hurt/comfort sex translates well into RL. Like, I don't think I'd want sex after some super traumatizing, horrifying situation. But in fic? Give me, please.

So yes, I'd say generally, my kinks are strong versions of RL things. I wouldn't like the strong things in RL, but they often represent something that I would like in RL.

tw: rape, csa

[(Anonymous)]

I love love love noncon. It's basically all I write and read. If someone is consenting, I don't like it as much. I've been raped and molested in real life and I worry that those experiences and the grooming I received as a child have made me feel this way about media. But I can't help myself. Ah well...

Re: tw: rape, csa

[(Anonymous)]

If it worries you, you could visit a therapist or counselor and ask them. It does kinda sound like you use it as a way to work through your experiences. I think quite a few people do that. In your place I might visit the counselor just to be sure that you're doing that in a healthy way.

Re: tw: rape, csa

[(Anonymous)]

Oh I do see a psychiatrist and we've worked on these issues some. But the underlying groundwork still remains the same so I guess I have further to go. I just imagine myself in the raped person's perspective and that makes me happy? Or at least fulfilled. So I guess I'm using it as a way to work through myself, but I worry that it's in a negative way. :(

Re: Fandom tropes irl

[(Anonymous)]

I like reading about dominant women in fiction but I'm not all that confident sexually. Maybe in a relationship with someone I knew well and trusted, if they were into it. I think I'd die trying to bring up in conversation that I think strap ons are kind of hot, so I don't know how that would even be figured out. I'd just cease to exist out of mortification.