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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-06-05 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #4171 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4171 ⌋

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Re: Advice.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-06 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
Relatives should not throw showers.

Ask one of her friends to take over and then you extra don't have to be involved!

Re: Advice.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-06 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
What? Since when? Where I'm from, it's always relatives - sisters or aunts, typically - who throw baby and bridal showers.

Re: Advice.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-06 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
It's one of those etiquette things that most people either don't know about, or ignore completely, but ayrt is correct. Showers aren't supposed to be thrown by your family.

Re: Advice.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-06 03:21 am (UTC)(link)
I've never heard that. I know that moms shouldn't throw this stuff, and brides shouldn't plan it themselves, but it seems to be more appropriate for family to plan these kinds of events, and friends to plan the bachelorette party.

Re: Advice.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-06 04:00 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah it's an etiquette thing basically just so that it's not seen as a selfish gift grab from the Mother-to-be/bride, etc.

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(Anonymous) 2018-06-06 05:29 am (UTC)(link)
Huh. I guess it's different here. I've never been to a baby shower that wasn't planned at least partly by family. Then again, we only do small gifts. If you have one of those gift registry things with stuff that's all super expensive I could see it looking kind of tacky. I don't think I've seen anyone spend more than $30 or so on a gift unless it was parents buying a crib or stroller for their new grandchildren.