[ SECRET POST #4171 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4171 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Advice.

[(Anonymous)]

IMO, it's a little weird. I raise an eyebrow at anyone inviting themselves over anywhere. But a guy doing it when you're not that close AND staying past the time when their people leave AND putting you on the spot... ehhh. He might mean well, but that was awkward as shit. I'd say no the concert. I wouldn't necessarily cut him off, but I'd avoid one on one outings until I could be sure he wasn't going to be weird about the rejection.

Re: Advice.

[(Anonymous)]

Thanks for the input. This friend group regularly meets for after-work drinks and the female friend and I were talking about watching a movie at my place afterwards and I stupidly invited another female friend (it was sort of a chick flick movie), but she couldn't come, and I guess the guy who overheard took it as an invitation. I don't think he meant badly at all and he had been at my apartment once before at another mutual friend gathering, so I didn't read the location as weird, but I could see how it might be a general social no-no for a guy to do. I'll probably excuse myself from the concert, I just really don't want to leave things awkward because I would pretty much lose the whole group (except for the aforementioned closer female friend).

Re: Advice.

[(Anonymous)]

I get that, but there's a limit to how much control you have over the potential awkwardness of this situation. If the guy chooses to make a big deal over this, please don't go out of your way to try and smooth things over just because you don't want to rock the boat.