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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-06-05 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #4171 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4171 ⌋

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Re: Advice.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-06 01:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Was just in a similar situation; bachelorette party planning for a friend and I just ... DO NOT understand or like a few of her other friends. The mantra you use is:

This is a party I am throwing for my sister.
My sister enjoys her friends.
So I will throw a party where she and her friends can enjoy themselves.

And then find one thing you SUPER enjoy about the party to focus on. (For me, I love baking and food, so I threw myself into that. YAY! CAKE! is a sentiment you can share with pretty much anybody, no matter how little you have in common)

You presumably like the OTHER half of her friends. So concentrate on hostess-ing (this usually precludes much socializing anyway) and when you DO have a breather to enjoy the party, too, then hang out with YOUR SISTER, whom you love, and the friends of hers you DO like, and yeah, be polite and inclusive of the others because, fuck it, it's just one day and they're okay, after all.