[ SECRET POST #4188 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4188 ⌋

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03. [SPOILERS for Hereditary]


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08. [SPOILERS for Solo]



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11. [WARNING for discussion of suicide]



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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah. Could it be more clear that depression is a brain problem that attacks the way you think and makes you hate living? It's a hugely unfair disease.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah.
Depression can hit anyone, even the people who seem the most guarded who have everything.
Just like anybody can break a bone. :(

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, actually, it could be more clear. Most people with depression have it due to life circumstances that could be ameliorated if not eliminated with piles and piles of money.

[(Anonymous)]

That's a bold claim. Do you have any proof of this?

I would agree with you that if you had said life circumstances often make many people feel depressed.

I would not agree that "most" people who have major depressive disorder, aka capital-D Depression, have it due to life circumstances that could be solved with money. Think about how many mega rich celebrities kill themselves. All the time.

[(Anonymous)]

da, but hypothetically a lot of rich celebrities could afford top of the line therapy/ psychiatric care, so you could claim that there is still an advantage to being rich there

[(Anonymous)]

Of course there's an advantage to being rich. But being rich doesn't solve depression, as anon claims.

[(Anonymous)]

That doesn't mean they aren't depressed tho.

[(Anonymous)]

That's helpful if they decide to seek therapy or there are signs that lead others to urge them to go, but that's not always how it works. Having the money to pay for help doesn't mean anything if you don't ever think to seek help.

[(Anonymous)]

And even if you do seek help, it doesn't always make the depression go away. I have a friend who has been in therapy and on various meds for years and she still struggles with her depression sometimes.

[(Anonymous)]

I think that's over simplifying things, but I agree that having loads of money solves a lot of problems and it'd personally remove a great deal of my anxieties.

[(Anonymous)]

No, you're wrong. What's worse is that you have no idea how wrong you are.

[(Anonymous)]

Uh, no. Pretty much everyone I've known who has suffered from severe depression has had a perfectly happy and comfortable life money-wise. That's what makes it so glaringly obvious that depression is a disease involving brain chemistry - they had nothing in their life circumstances to make them unhappy, yet they were miserable anyway.

[(Anonymous)]

No, see you're confusing two very different things--there's situational depression, which isn't the real deal--it's a misnomer. This is something that can be more or less fixed by changing the circumstances. Then there's the actual disease, which is a mental illness that lies and fucks you up no matter what your objective material situation is.

[(Anonymous)]

Situational depression hurts just as much and can't always be fixed. Any type of depression can kill.

[(Anonymous)]

Situational depression is not actual depression, though. Real, legitimate depression is a mental illness that can't be improved just by changing things in your life. You could have objectively the greatest life in the world and still be suffering from clinical depression because clinical depression has no bearing on how awful or how great your life is as a whole.

With situational depression, if you fix the things in that person's life that are causing the situational depression, it will go away. It generally doesn't need medication to help it and often medication either won't do anything or will make it worse, since the problem isn't in your brain. If anything, talk therapy is more useful in dealing with it.

But with actual, clinical depression, making changes to your life won't do anything because that's not the root of the problem. That's why actual depression often responds to medication-- because it's a mental illness. Just talking to someone typically isn't enough to help, either.

So sure, money could help some people who have situational depression, but it won't do anything to help people who have clinical depression and are already taking steps to treat it.

[(Anonymous)]

Talk therapy doesn't do shit. I know because I've been in it for ages.

[(Anonymous)]

It didn't work for me either, but it does for some people.

[(Anonymous)]

It often doesn't if you have chemical caused-by-your-brain depression. That usually takes meds to help rebalance your brain chemistry that's messed up.

ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

I have mostly situational depression, probably a tiny bit of chemical depression. Everything always ends up shitty no matter what I do or don't do. CBT therapy is mostly about a goalsheet and mindfulness. I got fucking sick and tired of that crap. Also: my therapists were third year residents at a behavioral health clinic in a hospital, always younger than me. I'm on a low-cost health insurance so that's probably the best help it is going to get for me, mental health-wise. Social workers, mental health counsellors, therapists- it's all the same shit. Thumbs down.

[(Anonymous)]

I've been in it for ages with...five? different therapists now, and having a good one (or just one that clicks with you better) makes a HUGE difference. talk therapy + meds is better than either one alone for me, but talk therapy is definitely not nothing.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, it wa an annoying waste of time for me too. Meds got me out of my crisis and talking was something I did just to check the boxes I had to in order to get the proper treatment.