[ SECRET POST #4190 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #4190 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.



__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________



10.



__________________________________________________



11.


__________________________________________________



12.



__________________________________________________



13.


__________________________________________________



14.









Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 77 secrets from Secret Submission Post #600.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

+1

i am mentally ill so i don't know how "normal" my view is, but the thought of having my trust betrayed like that freaks me out and by extension i feel incredibly bad for anyone who gets cheated on. i think that it inherently involves other people is a big part of it, not only is my trust betrayed but i am humiliated in front of the person that my partner cheated on me with.

if they know about it, of course. it's just a double sandwich of nightmares for me.


and ive been raped and don't appreciate it being used to mock my reaction to the topic....

[soldatsasha]

and ive been raped and don't appreciate it being used to mock my reaction to the topic...

Same here.

I was actually in a situation where I wasn't exactly cheated on, technically, but the betrayal, violation, and humiliation were there. I'm not going to go into it, but I can tell you which one fucked me up more and it wasn't being raped.

You have to question every memory, every conversation you've ever had, every ounce of trust is just gone. For a lot of people, their lives are basically just fucking destroyed, because they live with the cheater and have all the same friends and shit. And yeah, then you have to wonder how much they told the outside person. How much time did they spend making fun of you, or telling awful lies about you. It's really one of the worst things you can do to another person, imo.

[(Anonymous)]

and ive been raped and don't appreciate it being used to mock my reaction to the topic....

Are you actually equating rape and being cheated on then? yikes.

[(Anonymous)]

DA

Lmao wtf. One of the original comments talked about people reacting as if cheating was akin to rape and AYRT said they’ve been raped and don’t like it when rape is used in that way.

It couldn’t be farther from equating the two. But holy fuck the ball didn’t just fly over your head, it rocketed into space above you

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, no. The original comment was berating people on this comm for this instant over the top outrage as though it were on par with something akin to murder/rape, which isn't mocking. Then this anon goes and tries to equate the two again by being outraged about the original anon's lack of outrage so either a) has shitty reading comprehension or b) does think cheating is on par with rape. Possibly both.

[(Anonymous)]

"by being outraged about the original anon's lack of outrage", really, that's how my comment reads to you?

i suggest the one lacking reading comprehension might be you. my comment was perfectly calm and you're trying to shove words in my mouth because i - what, upset you by objecting?

+1

[(Anonymous)]

You couldn't have been more clear about saying the original anon that used rape and murder to make fun of people for "overreacting" to cheating was being disrespectful to rape victims! That kind of hyperbole is such a cheap way to belittle people, at the expense of actual victims. And it's almost inconceivable that someone could misrepresent your comment so severely, and then say YOU are the one with poor reading comprehension! And you were also very calm, so it does seem like AYRT equates saying something they don't want to hear with yelling and outrage.