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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-07-23 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #4219 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4219 ⌋

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Re: How's your day going, FS?

(Anonymous) 2018-07-24 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
Not really. Still feeling horrible after yesterday. Invited a family member over to celebrate my dad's birthday and have a small party that I'd planned for him, and they took me aside to tell me what a burden I was for still living at home and how it wasn't fair on my dad. Okay. Well I'm not sure what they expect the outcome of that little talk to be. I can't fix my serious health problem so I can't work and I can't afford a place on my own. So I guess what you're really saying is that he'd be better off if I kill myself? Because that's really my only other option.
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Re: How's your day going, FS?

[personal profile] philstar22 2018-07-24 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
What a terrible person. I'm sorry they said that to you. It is your life and your father's life. They don't know anything. They don't get to tell you what you should do with your own life. Fuck them. Honestly. Ignore them. They know nothing.

Re: How's your day going, FS?

(Anonymous) 2018-07-24 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks. It's not the first time I've heard this from family members but it's been harder this time because we've been trying to sort out finances for moving to a new house that would be better for me. I know my dad will have to dip into retirement savings and I feel awful about it because I don't want to be a burden. Everything is just really hard right now because this isn't the life I wanted either and I see all my friends moving on with relationships and careers and I know that's never going to be me. I've accepted it, but I'm still grieving. Of course, I can't express that because people react like it's shocking and I need treatment for... having negative emotions? I'm not depressed, I'm just dealing with stuff I can't feel happy about.

I'm sorry for ranting.