[ SECRET POST #4220 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4220 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

No, that's another road to creepy speculation about the lives of strangers. Unless it all comes out years from now in divorce court, just assume the adult knows what he is doing with his life and has made choices he wants to live with. We don't need to ask the question and he is not in need of rescue.

[(Anonymous)]

What? You went down a weird road with rescue. Rescue from whom or what?

All I was trying to say is that having a child is certainly a life changer. I suppose to me it's very weird to see everybody automatically assume it's a happy thing, having children, with no other info to go on.

Is it going to "tank the career," of any average male Hollywood actor, definitely not unless he wants it to.

[(Anonymous)]

The bit about "the important question no one is asking" sounded a touch hysterical. It's not the important question. It's nobody's business but the ones having the kid.

[(Anonymous)]

"Rescue" was a touch hysterical too, if you want to get into tone, lol.

I didn't mean it in a personal sense, I don't know who this in question even is and have no desire to pry into his life. I was just pointing out that whether a hypothetical kid was planned or wanted is an important question to ask, specifically when, like in this thread, OP and everyone else is conjecturing on whether some unknown person's life is going to be successful and fine and happy.

If someone had gone "yes, they have been wanting a child for a while" then I would say oh, good! Then that's great news. If someone says "no, rumor has it that they didn't want a kid for several years yet" I would say oh no, that's bad, and possibly might affect the people in question negatively because a child is a huge change to be unprepared for.

None of this is anyone's business, to be fair, no matter what the prediction.

[(Anonymous)]

Exactly. It's none of our business. Glad to hear you're not actually creepy over invested.

[(Anonymous)]

Well, like I said, I've no idea who this is about, so it's hard for me to be invested at all in the actor himself, lol.

Just pointing out that while everyone is hypothesizing randomly about people we don't know and have no information about, there's this hypothetical factor that hasn't been brought up which I feel would be important when making positive or negative predictions. :)

[(Anonymous)]

Thank you! (Do people normally assume kids are not wanted??? IDEK)

[(Anonymous)]

No one is assuming kids are not wanted, they're asking if they are.

Acknowledging there is a chance children are unplanned is not unrealistic. It is also not the same as assuming a child is unwanted. It's acknowledging that the possibility exists.

Why would you read that question as though the child is assumed to be unwanted?

[(Anonymous)]

The shouting: "Does he WANT kids?"