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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-08-14 05:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #4241 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4241 ⌋

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Re: Whatcha doing today, FS?

(Anonymous) 2018-08-14 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Well I’m at work and I almost decked an old lady on reflex just now because first she touched my hair and then gathered it up and touched the back of my neck. She was complimenting my hair but my hindbrain doesn’t give a fuck, ffs don’t touch me, especially where I can’t see you! Freaking out in the bathroom right now. Rationally I know it’s no big deal but augh!
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Re: Whatcha doing today, FS?

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2018-08-15 04:09 am (UTC)(link)
god, I don't blame you for being pissed. what is with old people with no idea of personal space?!

Re: Whatcha doing today, FS?

(Anonymous) 2018-08-15 05:09 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT—I wish I’d only been pissed instead of panicked and pissed and a lot of the pissed was at myself for panicking. I don’t even deal well with family or friends touching me, even when I can see ahead of time that they’re going in for a hug or whatever.

A stranger touching me from behind is automatically an eldritch horror from dimension X, a knife-wielding maniac, or a garden-variety sexual-asaulting scumbag as far as my hindbrain is concerned.

I mean, I also think it’s a rude thing to do, but I deal with the public all day and some are gonna be assholes. But random dickbags don’t send me running to the bathroom to splash water on my face while I get my breathing, heartrate, overclocked fight or flight response, and beginnings of a crying jag under control.
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Re: Whatcha doing today, FS?

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2018-08-15 09:29 pm (UTC)(link)
ugh, I used to work with a rude jackass who thought it was funny to go into my office and grab me from behind. I know how you feel.

Re: Whatcha doing today, FS?

(Anonymous) 2018-08-15 05:08 am (UTC)(link)
I'm with you, I'd HATE that. You just don't mess with a stranger's hair like that, how hard is that for some people to grasp?

Re: Whatcha doing today, FS?

(Anonymous) 2018-08-15 07:50 pm (UTC)(link)
gathered it up and touched the back of my neck

Yeah, that's just going way to far with a stranger! It's not even advisable with someone you have a relationship with where hair- and neck-touching is fine, if they aren't aware it was you coming up behind them.