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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-10-12 05:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #4300 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4300 ⌋

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Re: Weekend Plans

(Anonymous) 2018-10-12 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I have to find a way to tell my mother that I already have other plans (a science festival with nerdy friends) that I don't want to cancel for her, even if I see my friends every other week and my mother once very three months. (Last time she came, she made me miss the Pride, humiliated me in front of my friends, and refused to respect my boundaries; I'm tired of alway letting her walk all over me and it's hard to remember that I love her when I'm angry at her.)

Re: Weekend Plans

(Anonymous) 2018-10-12 10:47 pm (UTC)(link)
<3

I'm sure she's like that and just remember that it's not your responsibility or fault that she's like that

Re: Weekend Plans

(Anonymous) 2018-10-12 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not surprised you don't want to cancel your plans to see her. It sounds like the right call. When you tell her, don't give her any reason to argue with. Just tell her that doesn't work for you and end the conversation.
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Re: Weekend Plans

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2018-10-12 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
That sucks, have to be firm with her. Maybe try to set up something with her FAR in advance doing a neutral event you both enjoy?

Re: Weekend Plans

(Anonymous) 2018-10-12 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Good luck, anon! You'll find the words. Enjoy your weekend!
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Re: Weekend Plans

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2018-10-12 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
awww. sorry to hear your mom is like that. you don't pick your family, do you? hugs if you want them