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⌈ Secret Post #4302 ⌋

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Re: Advice thread

[mudousetsuna]

All the advice here is good, but in my own experience, trying to be a people pleaser and wanting desperately to be liked is where this kind of paranoia comes from. It's very easy to start second guessing everything you do or think or act like, especially if you've had a rough time. After I had a falling out with a super close friend, and it caused stress between me and another close friend, I think it took a few years for me to reach a point where I felt confident in myself, but it was also eye opening. You gotta start making your choices with the mindset that you are doing your best, you are genuinely invested in what you believe, and if somebody is going to be mean or dislike you for it, they are not worth your time. Do that, and you will start to discover who your true friends are. It will vary from person to person, but I genuinely believe you are only hurting yourself when you invest too much time in trying to live up to others expectations at the expense of your own mental health.

There is nothing wrong with you for being paranoid. It's okay and I think it's a normal function that sometimes grows out of control for us due to our experiences or our chemical makeup, but you can overcome it. I believe in you! *HUGS*

Re: Advice thread

[(Anonymous)]

Thank you *hugs back*