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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-11-04 03:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #4323 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4323 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Iron Fist, season two]


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03.
[Venom]


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04.
[Dragonsphere]


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05.
[The Captive Prince series by C.S. Pacat]


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06.
[Sarah Michelle Gellar]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 31 secrets from Secret Submission Post #619.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Advice

(Anonymous) 2018-11-04 09:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Don't give elaborate explanations or make excuses, or as some internet circles say, don't JADE. (Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain) It seems like a good idea (to help people understand where you're coming from!) but when you're dealing with people who are likely to be unreasonable, all it does is make them think this is up for debate and they'll argue with you. Keep it low key, and tell them like it's a done deal. Keep answers short and vague and uninformative.

"This year, I'll be coming back December 30th. See you then!"

"I'm trying something different this year."

"This is what works for me."


If they get shitty about it, exit the conversation. "Okay, well, got to go. See you all after Christmas!"