[ SECRET POST #4323 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4323 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Iron Fist, season two]


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03.
[Venom]


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04.
[Dragonsphere]


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05.
[The Captive Prince series by C.S. Pacat]


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06.
[Sarah Michelle Gellar]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 31 secrets from Secret Submission Post #619.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

Re: Advice

[(Anonymous)]

Should I spend Thanksgiving at my sister's new house that she and her wife just bought even though I am offended that they wouldn't let me sleep on their floor if I become homeless in the future?

Re: Advice

[(Anonymous)]

Why would you be homeless in the future? Why is this even a consideration?

Re: Advice

[(Anonymous)]

Because I live with my last remaining parent and if they died next week, I would not be able to rent a place with barely any employment history/references and I don't even know my credit check score.

Re: Advice

[(Anonymous)]

Are you an adult?
Are you capable of getting a job and managing your own finances?

If you answered yes to both, congrats. Now what are you doing not having your shit together? Go fix that right the hell now. You don't want to let that continue. That's how you get homeless. I speak from very real experience.

If no, if you're a minor or you have an intellectual disability and require a guardian, your sister does not have any responsibility for you unless she chooses to take on that role. She's an adult and you're not entitled to use a home you don't pay for.

Re: Advice

[(Anonymous)]

me again

that was blunter than I meant to be and I apologise for being rude, I stand by the facts and figuring this out now is better than waiting and not knowing what will happen later.

Have a good talk with your parent, get copies of all your documents, their documents, anything pertaining to the house and its upkeep, bills and loans, and look up how to get a credit report in your state, etc., if you have questions about what to do next get on r/personalfinance on reddit and ask the people there.

It's stressful being unsure of what the future holds, and it can be scary to focus on this stuff, but it is ultimately so important and you'll gain a lot more confidence and independence by taking this step.

Re: Advice

[(Anonymous)]

The house will be sold by my mother's second husband after she dies because he pays the mortgage, he never wanted to live in another house (my mother wanted one), and he doesn't want to live at this location any longer (she did). He doesn't care about me and never will. We just tolerate each other.

Re: Advice

[(Anonymous)]

What was your experience?