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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-11-07 06:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #4236 ]


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nightscale: Starbolt (WoW: Ysera)

Re: Vent thread

[personal profile] nightscale 2018-11-08 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
I definitely find it strange being called 'love' or 'darling' because it's not a regional thing where I live(frankly if anyone says it here they're being incredibly sarcastic), but if I'm somewhere where it's part of the local vernacular I just accept it as the greeting it is and move on. There's no harm meant, so there's no issue.

Her dislike of the word can be understandable if she's had bad experiences, but her reaction was not. Like it could have been the straw that broke the camel's back on a bad-day, but that doesn't mean you get to take that shit out on strangers? Or anyone really tbh, but especially not strangers.

Like jfc I'm so sorry.
syncing_feeling: (Default)

Re: Vent thread

[personal profile] syncing_feeling 2018-11-08 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
Vernacular, that's the word I was looking for! Thank you. It's so common down here, I get called it dozens of times in a shift by strangers. I totally understood her not liking the word especially if she's not local, but she could have asked me not to call her that and I would have gladly complied. I wanted to cry after, she was so aggressive. I suck at confrontation.
nightscale: Starbolt (WoW: Ysera)

Re: Vent thread

[personal profile] nightscale 2018-11-08 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah there's certain places in the country where it's just a very common thing to hear, it's really not an issue because some people say different words, shocking.

She's definitely an ass for getting so aggressive about it and it's not your fault at all.

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