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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-11-07 06:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #4236 ]


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Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2018-11-08 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
vent that is unrelated to your vent/

I have a very few friends, and one of them is a woman I've been friends with since high school - so, about thirteen, fourteen years? And this year she (and her partner, who I'm also friends with) forgot my birthday. Not just no gift, which I would be 100% okay with, but not even a facebook message.
She has recently invited me to the surprise birthday party for another friend of hers - a bloke I've met several times but barely know, and frankly, I don't fucking like what I do know! He's an arsehole! Within half an hour of the first time we met, he declared I wasn't autistic - not based on any psych qualifications, of course, just the fact that he works with disabled kindergarteners.
Also he uses the N-word, like, so much. He is not African-American.

So I'm just sort of overwhelmed by this feeling of... "Why the hell does this dickhead get so much of your time and consideration, and I don't even get the thirty seconds for a 'Happy Birthday!'?"

But I'll get over it. After seething for a bit more, probably.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2018-11-08 07:02 am (UTC)(link)
Time for a slow fade while you expand your friendship circle to include better quality friends.