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fandomsecrets2018-11-09 06:33 pm
[ SECRET POST #4328 ]
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(Anonymous) 2018-11-10 12:31 am (UTC)(link)I'm not saying that you personally have to take part in, or be exposed to, or pay attention to any of it (although I personally believe that you should). But, yeah, IDK, that's how it seems to me, anyway.
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(Anonymous) 2018-11-10 12:38 am (UTC)(link)Other than someone wants to make them, in which case, fair enough.
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(Anonymous) 2018-11-10 12:54 am (UTC)(link)Again, at the same time, it is fandom, and it shouldn't be that serious, and people shouldn't be asses about any of it, and people shouldn't use it as an excuse to be cruel or harmful, and no one should compel you to pay attention to it or to do fandom differently, and all social media platforms should make it easy to control how much interaction you have with The Discourse and set your own preferences. I think all of those things are true at the same time.
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(Anonymous) 2018-11-10 01:00 am (UTC)(link)But fandom isn't just fanfiction existing in a vacuum. It's all the other interactions that fans have, too, all the conversations and theories and meta and discussion. And that - to me - is where these issues arise more, and where they should be talked about (although not in a way that's dickish or obstreperous).
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(Anonymous) 2018-11-10 02:56 am (UTC)(link)defending the rabidly anti-nuance "NO ONE IS ALLOWED TO LIKE IMPURE THINGS, KILL YOURSELF PEDO" contingent because "other interactions that fans have" are issues that need to be talked about?????
Please reread the secret. Yeah, there are moral meta issues in fandom with some substance (like the original racefail) that shouldn't be suppressed. "VILLAIN FANS ARE EVIL" might sound like a strawman if you haven't run into it, but it is 100% accurate to a regrettably popular mindset right now. And it does not have either truth value, more value, or social/cultural value. Fandom and fans would be better without it. Purity culture crusaders need to get a fucking grip on the difference between fiction and reality and a respect for the actual complexities of the relationship between the two for thier contributions to those conversations to be remotely worthwhile.
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(Anonymous) 2018-11-10 06:39 am (UTC)(link)Nothing that the OP said in the secret is specific to KILL YOURSELF PEDO. OP presented a very general set of scenarios.
I think it's harder than people think - in general - to differentiate between what's rabid and what's reasonable. If you do a bad job with it, you run a serious risk of throwing the good out with the bad. And that's especially true when you fail to differentiate between the things. When you just present a bunch of apparently-reasonable things and just expect everyone to assume that the people involved are totally actually completely rabid and insane. Again, nothing OP said implies that they're talking specifically about "purity culture crusaders who say everyone is evil". Calling people an edgelord certainly doesn't. It's a little rude, maybe, but to say that everyone who calls someone else an edgelord is "rabidly anti-nuance" is fucking absurd.
It's true that over-reactive purity crusade wankery is regretally popular right now. But it's also true that people overreact to what are actually entirely legitimate criticisms, and blow up and act like martyrs on the cross. Don't act like that doesn't happen, too. Like there aren't people who think that any criticism, or anything to do with social justice, is automatically and immediately wrong. Tons of em.
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(Anonymous) 2018-11-11 12:17 am (UTC)(link)Not only that, there are people in this crowd who literally call two adults with a small age gap (some as small as two years) "pedophilia."
They've tried to call out and shame teens having crushes on teens as "pedophiles."
This is to say nothing of the doxxing, sending CSA and gore to people, or how they'll result to actual slurs against staff they don't like. (Calling Bex Taylor-Klaus from Voltron a "dyke" and talking about taking a gun and shooting her, hoping that Lauren Montgomery gets raped, and saying Josh was a pedophile to his own children because he'd made Sheith jokes before come to mind.)
These are not the kinds of people you should be defending. It doesn't matter if "these conversations need to be had" because these people are ruining the conversations. Often they're too young to understand the nuance of the feminism they're spewing and it's reduced to bastardized buzzwords used to bully people. In worst case scenarios, they're groomed by extremeists.