case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-11-09 06:33 pm

[ SECRET POST #4328 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4328 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.



__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________


03.
[The Red Green Show]


__________________________________________________



04.
[Overwatch]


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06. [SPOILERS for The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina]



__________________________________________________



07. [SPOILERS for The Haunting of Hill House]











Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #619.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2018-11-10 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
My long distance SO broke up with me and it feels like I've lost most of my friend group because they were all friends with them before me. We'd also planned for me to move cross country to live with them. It feels like my entire future is just. Completely changed and I'm trying hard to get over my devastation but it's hard. They were my first love (I'm in my 30s). How do I get over this? I'm feeling really pathetic about it, especially since they seem to be super fine.

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2018-11-10 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
Just take it one day at a time. Maybe sign up for some groups so you can get out more around people? I know it doesn't seem like it right now but it is a REALLY good thing you did not move already.

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2018-11-10 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
That sucks, OP, I'm sorry. :(. Give yourself time and permission to feel like crap. Be extra kind to yourself. When you can, maybe hit meetup.com or look for social groups centered around a new hobby. It'll help get your mind off things and you'll meet new people.

Ans don't go by how your ex seems. They aren't necessarily untouched by this, even if you can't see it on the surface.
dahli: winnar @ lj (Oh pretty boy)

Re: Advice thread

[personal profile] dahli 2018-11-11 03:45 am (UTC)(link)
This is late and all but

You have all the right in the world to feel sad and upset. Coming out of a relationship is hard so give yourself time to grieve. Feel sad, feel angry, feel upset and let it all out because it's a hard situation. Just give yourself time to sort out your feelings and if you feel up for it, find someone who you can talk about it or even writing it up. You can burn the paper later if you want.

If you have time, go out for walks, even 15 minutes will do, find some other activities, read a book, get into a new series or fandom even, do embroidery, do yoga; anything that gets your mind out of it.

Many hugs to you, anon! ♥