[ SECRET POST #4328 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4328 ⌋

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Comments

Advice thread

[(Anonymous)]

if you need some help with something

Re: Advice thread

[(Anonymous)]

My long distance SO broke up with me and it feels like I've lost most of my friend group because they were all friends with them before me. We'd also planned for me to move cross country to live with them. It feels like my entire future is just. Completely changed and I'm trying hard to get over my devastation but it's hard. They were my first love (I'm in my 30s). How do I get over this? I'm feeling really pathetic about it, especially since they seem to be super fine.

Re: Advice thread

[(Anonymous)]

Just take it one day at a time. Maybe sign up for some groups so you can get out more around people? I know it doesn't seem like it right now but it is a REALLY good thing you did not move already.

Re: Advice thread

[(Anonymous)]

That sucks, OP, I'm sorry. :(. Give yourself time and permission to feel like crap. Be extra kind to yourself. When you can, maybe hit meetup.com or look for social groups centered around a new hobby. It'll help get your mind off things and you'll meet new people.

Ans don't go by how your ex seems. They aren't necessarily untouched by this, even if you can't see it on the surface.

Re: Advice thread

[dahli]

This is late and all but

You have all the right in the world to feel sad and upset. Coming out of a relationship is hard so give yourself time to grieve. Feel sad, feel angry, feel upset and let it all out because it's a hard situation. Just give yourself time to sort out your feelings and if you feel up for it, find someone who you can talk about it or even writing it up. You can burn the paper later if you want.

If you have time, go out for walks, even 15 minutes will do, find some other activities, read a book, get into a new series or fandom even, do embroidery, do yoga; anything that gets your mind out of it.

Many hugs to you, anon! ♥

Re: Advice thread

[sarillia]

I'm trying a new dating app and I'm so used to people not seeming very interested that now that I've just gotten a message from someone who seems way more interested I'm afraid it's some scam and I don't know if I should respond or not.

Re: Advice thread

[nanslice]

I would respond but keep your guard up, which is probably a good idea either way

Re: Advice thread

[(Anonymous)]

I agree with the suggestion to respond but keep your guard up and don't be afraid to state upfront that you prefer to move slowly and take your time. If the person responding doesn't respect this, block them.

Re: Advice thread

[(Anonymous)]

Years and years ago I joined a dating site as a free trial and I had barely posted anything besides my gender, age, and location before I started getting some responses, including from a guy who said I "looked cute" when I had not posted any pictures or described myself at all! I realized that some people just cast a wide net and see what shakes out (I lived in a college town surrounded my rural areas, so maybe not such a bad strategy when you aren't going to have as many options as in a big city). I think these days there are even bots that can message people for you. I didn't respond to any of these guys because I knew they couldn't possibly be sincere. So, not to say this person isn't really interested, but it's possible they aren't withou it being a scam. I'd say look into it if you feel interested in them, but be cautious.