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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-11-09 06:33 pm

[ SECRET POST #4328 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4328 ⌋

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sarillia: (Default)

Re: Advice thread

[personal profile] sarillia 2018-11-10 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
I'm trying a new dating app and I'm so used to people not seeming very interested that now that I've just gotten a message from someone who seems way more interested I'm afraid it's some scam and I don't know if I should respond or not.
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Re: Advice thread

[personal profile] nanslice 2018-11-10 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
I would respond but keep your guard up, which is probably a good idea either way

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2018-11-10 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
I agree with the suggestion to respond but keep your guard up and don't be afraid to state upfront that you prefer to move slowly and take your time. If the person responding doesn't respect this, block them.

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2018-11-10 07:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Years and years ago I joined a dating site as a free trial and I had barely posted anything besides my gender, age, and location before I started getting some responses, including from a guy who said I "looked cute" when I had not posted any pictures or described myself at all! I realized that some people just cast a wide net and see what shakes out (I lived in a college town surrounded my rural areas, so maybe not such a bad strategy when you aren't going to have as many options as in a big city). I think these days there are even bots that can message people for you. I didn't respond to any of these guys because I knew they couldn't possibly be sincere. So, not to say this person isn't really interested, but it's possible they aren't withou it being a scam. I'd say look into it if you feel interested in them, but be cautious.