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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-11-16 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #4335 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4335 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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06. [SPOILERS for season 3 of Daredevil]



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[personal profile] fscom 2018-11-16 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
08. [WARNING for discussion of rape]
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(Anonymous) 2018-11-16 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh man, this is what drives me crazy about antis. The level of hypocrisy is truly staggering. They ALL have their dirty little secrets, and yet.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-16 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
All of them?

(Anonymous) 2018-11-16 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Yep! I'm convinced of it.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-16 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Based on what? I guess every human being has some secrets but that doesn't seem like what you had in mind.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
That's exactly what I had in mind.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
So your problem with them is that they're human beings? Eh?

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
OMFG

My problem is that they act like judgey assholes when clearly they, like everyone else, have their own dark sides.

Why is this hard, anon. Why.

Also, I realize this is a vastly unpopular opinion on this shithole community where moralizing is the end-all-be-all of existence, but I feel certain that people who preach the loudest about problematic stuff are sinning the hardest behind closed doors. And no, I don't have proof other than 40+ years of experience with humankind's hypocrisy.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
I feel certain that people who preach the loudest about problematic stuff are sinning the hardest behind closed doors.

I totally agree!

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
Also, I realize this is a vastly unpopular opinion on this shithole community where moralizing is the end-all-be-all of existence, but I feel certain that people who preach the loudest about problematic stuff are sinning the hardest behind closed doors.

Agreed. Just look at all the "Christian family values" politicians and the televangelists and such for classic examples of that hypocrisy in action.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-16 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe they've changed? And even if not, let them hang themselves. If they do things that the fandom doesn't like, then it's likely the fandom will rise up against them.

A per-emptive strike, on the other hand, will probably just make you look like an asshole.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
But if their friends and followers believe "problematic shippers" are really dangerous, then shouldn't they know for their own protection?

I mean, that's what antis believe. They believe people who write noncon fic or whatever are sincerely dangerous. Or at least that's what they claim to believe, I personally think only the dumbest and most easily-led fall for that, the rest are just in it for the thrill of bullying and feeling like a good moral person at someone else's expense - which is a hell of a drug. So if someone has that kind of background, surely their followers deserve to be warned....

(This is all 1000% self-serving "anti" bullshit, of course, but if the OP really did want some petty revenge, this would be a way to do it that would be karmically justified.)

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
Assuming we're taking everything OP says entirely at face value

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
Have they changed as in "not bullying people for what they draw anymore, realized other people's fantasies are not theirs to police, and apologized to the people they did it to"?

That's the only kind of change I respect in this situation. I don't support bullying even bullies for their past creative work, because that reinforces the notion that creative work is something that merits bullying and I think that's utterly wrong. But if turnabout happens to one of these assholes I'm sure not gonna cry about it.

OP

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 03:18 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I'm not exactly crying if this jerk gets a taste of their own medicine, even though it would be a shame. Really, the best comeuppance for them is to migrate to a site with some actual moderation and then get banned from it.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 02:26 am (UTC)(link)
Secret OP
The thing is, I don't really give shit what other people ship, or like in their porn. Hell, I'm a big fan of noncon ships myself. It's just... their hypocrisy was really off the charts. Like, even at the time they were shipping the aforementioned "bad" ship, they were being rude and dismissive to shippers of other, similarly problematic ships. They even harassed a couple people out of the fandom, or so I've heard?

And when they finally figured that hey! bashing problematic shippers when your ship is also problematic looks off as all hell and dropped the ship (which, let's be real, is a bigger reason why I would never do this), they tried to make it look like it was all those other shippers of their former favorite ship who were at fault. It was them who were the ones who romanticized, nay, denied the abuse in canon, it was them who tried to lead our anti, the paragon of virtue, astray. Yes, our anti friend may have been tempted, and in their moments of weakness, succumbed, but eventually they cast off the bonds of temptation and rape apologism, and stepped into the light of Pure and Righteous shipping.

Which, nevermind the fact that nobody in their right mind would say that the ship as portrayed in canon wasn't abusive (although a few people out of it certainly tried), our anti buddy certainly made their fair share of fanworks containing all the good dirtybadwrong porn tropes like mindbreak, choking, etc., etc. The most charitable read of their version of the narrative is that they honestly didn't know that that shit would have been abusive in real life until then, which is. Not a good look. To put it mildly.

So yeah guess I'm still bitter about this.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 01:15 am (UTC)(link)
I get your feeling of temptation, anon.
Gk fandom is becoming more unbearable, hostile and hypocritical with every day. Antis and bnfs encouraging hive mind mentality are one part of the problem.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
Argh, that sucks. I'm not in the fandom, but that kind of atmosphere sounds oppressive as all hell.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
I applaud you for not doing it, but man I would be tempted. And would enjoy imagining the fallout.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
Antis reached GK fandom? That seems like the kind of fandom you wouldn't expect it? What kind of shippers are they even hating on?

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 03:58 am (UTC)(link)
I still think it's hilarious that halfhardtorock, notorious explicit underage writer in Supernatural and Teen Wolf (and not just underage but heavily focused on porn of their child bodies) has now turned into an anti. Of all people!

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 05:36 am (UTC)(link)
Oh yeah, boy-soupy beds and toothsome nipples with baby fat. lol ew. I think she also said one or two creepy things about her son's friends IRL. I'm very thick-skinned and difficult to squick, but she managed it.

And I'd STILL be like, let her write whatever the fuck she wants, and if people find her creepy and avoid her fic, fine. The anti shtick is more worrying to me because, like many aggressive antis, she's trying to reassure kids that she's safe, it's those OTHER bad writers who are dangerous and don't worry honey, she'll protect you. It feels very disingenuous and manipulative.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Bboy-soupy beds and toothsome nipp-- what the ever loving FUCK

(Anonymous) 2018-11-17 04:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Please don't give antis more fuel.