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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-11-29 07:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #4348 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4348 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Greg Sanders from CSI and Jennifer Jareau from Criminal Minds]


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[She-Ra]


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[Downton Abbey]


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[Red Dead Redemption 2]


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[Undertale]


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[The Final Table]















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(Anonymous) 2018-11-30 11:37 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, fuckin' yes!!
Especially with unplanned parenthood, more often than not they don't even have the means to look after, let alone properly care for a child. Of course it always manages to work out in TV and Movies- but unplanned means unplanned! Even wanting a child, there is just so much responsibility there, that just never goes away. Pregnancy alone is enough to be put off from having kids, let alone the absolute horrors of giving birth...
Parenthood is just so glamorized I can't even believe it;;

The absolute worst though, is when games/shows force a character to reconnect with their abusive family. Obviously not a single one of those writers had to deal with such a thing themselves... Certain situations are just plain toxic- and being forced back into them, forced to make nice with people who don't deserve even an ounce of forgiveness or respect, is the worst thing you can do to just about anybody... Most of these situations come from unplanned parenthood, or when parenthood becomes too much.
So when having a child is used as a device that solves all of a characters problems, I can barely even stand it...

(I got so off topic there for a while;; I realized it after I wrote too much to backspace it all, and then just floundered to bring it back to the point...;; sorry bout that;;)