[ SECRET POST #4362 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4362 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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07. https://i.imgur.com/RLCWFm3.png
[OP suggested a warning for "partial nudity and er... bulge"]














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Comments

Re: Advice.

[(Anonymous)]

OP. I have been told by family members that I'm unattractive or ugly. I'd rather be alone than be with an ugly man I don't want. I quit asking my friend for help and now she's irritated.

Re: Advice.

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT—Your “friend” and family sound kind of cruel, tbh, and like the might be exacerbating any self-esteem issues you already had. And if you’re on a position to go on dates and have friends set you up on dates, I doubt anyone can force you to go out with someone you’re not interested in.

If your friend/family keep pushing you to date, tell them you’d rather focus on other stuff for now. If you meet someone and hit it off, cool, if not, you’ll still be learning to have fun while single and make better more friends. And maybe look into therapy, because fixating on how you’d rather die than date guys you think are ugly is an ott response to your kind of bitchy friend/sort of asshole family negging you about your looks and insisting that you “settle.”

Have you ever told them you’d rather be alone than settle? I get it, not attracting the partners/attention you want is no fun. But it’s also not worth dwelling on all the time or stewing in misery over. In this day and age you’re not gonna be stuck in your parents’ attic as an old maiden aunt your whole life just because you’re single.

Re: Advice.

[(Anonymous)]

I've been in therapy. Therapy doesn't do shit except try to tell me that I have value- which I already know I have. More than most people on this planet! And I wasn't even asking the therapist if I have value! I don't think my response is OTT at all in any way.


But I already am an old maiden aunt in my parents' abode. So. There goes your theories.