[ SECRET POST #4362 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4362 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Advice.

[(Anonymous)]

I've been conned into a double date by a friend. Her reasoning was that he was a friend of her boyfriend and if she could get us to date then they'd have another couple they both like to hang out with. Friends aren't the best judge of what you're looking for. Cool guy, but very much not for me. He was her type - big, muscular, not much going on upstairs. I like people I can really talk to, so he didn't appeal to me at all. Attraction is a very personal thing.

If you want to date, you should sign up for bumble or something that gives you the option to talk to people you think you'd like. Approach it without an attitude. You won't be interested in everyone, and not everyone will be interested in you either and that's how it is for all of us. Sometimes conversations won't go anywhere, but it's good to start them anyway and build up your confidence.

I think it's important not to cheat yourself out of finding someone by excluding everyone you're not instantly wildly attracted to. If you've not had many relationships I think it's easy to build up the idea in your head that you'll just know the right person immediately and you should wait for that feeling. Attraction isn't a yes or no question. It develops. It grows. Sometimes you find out they have a terrible personality and it dies completely. Ask your friends in good relationships if the person they're with is exactly what they would say their type was before they started dating. Plenty will say no, or that their first date was mediocre, or that they didn't like their boyfriend's beard. All of us have a weird toenail or a stupid laugh or something that would be considered unattractive by most people. Even the seriously good looking ones. You get past that stuff by finding someone who makes you think even their weird parts are good.

Re: Advice.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not interested in dating and I'm not cheating myself out of anything, believe me.