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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-12-16 03:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #4365 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4365 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Stargate SG-1)


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[Great British Bake Off]


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[Umbrella Academy]


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[cook and food writer Samin Nosrat, Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat]


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(Kim Taehyung)


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[Avengers: Endgame]










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Re: Yet another vent post

(Anonymous) 2018-12-17 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
I wouldn’t assume people even notice you’re eating less, but not because of you as a person specifically. It’s something that most people don’t notice of each other, period.

I’m not in exactly the same spot as you, but a lot of what you’re writing is similar to what my brain has or still shouts at me. My partner had no idea of any of it even after we dated and lived together for years until I straight up said it. Anyway, everyone has fucked up something or something fucked-up about them but odds are it’s not as fucked up as what their brain can tell them.

And also it’s huge that you’re keeping what you have functional at any level. There are people with jacked-up teeth that don’t give a shit about getting them looked at. Who dump gfs and pets wherever and the thought of bettering their position or themselves doesn’t even float across their minds. This isn’t saying “be cheerful” or “it’s ungrateful behavior”. It’s to say that your efforts and actions aren’t nothing. Good luck and see if you can get soup or similar down.