[ SECRET POST #4374 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #4374 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.



__________________________________________________



02.
[Disney/Doctor Who crossover]


__________________________________________________



03.
[Avatar: The Last Airbender]


__________________________________________________



04.
(Markiplier and his friend Wade)


__________________________________________________



05.
[Dumplin' on Netflix]


__________________________________________________



06.
[Daredevil]


__________________________________________________



07.
[Criminal Minds S03E13 "Limelight"]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 27 secrets from Secret Submission Post #626.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

Actually it's tons better than suicide baiting.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

Which is basically what that anon is doing. Hurling abuse at someone apparent mental issues just because you don't like them is shit-tier behaviour, whether you dump in a literal kys or not.

Re: DA

[thewakokid]

Hang on... Are you suggesting I do suicide baiting? Is that what you're accusing me of here?

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT but. My dude. You literally made a post about how the feminists were going to make you kill yourself by arguing that you, personally, were evil. What would you call it?

And that doesn't mean that you don't deserve compassion or help. Of course you deserve those things. But it is somewhat frustrating to deal with, when it seems like a consistent pattern of behavior that you've displayed and when it feels like you've consistently refused to listen to anyone who tries to talk to you about either the mental health side of it or the feminism side of it. It's definitely not the first time that we've had these conversations on here. And it seems like you have a really consistent pattern of focusing on, and exclusively engaging with, the most negative stuff. It's really hard to think what you're trying to accomplish.

IDK man!

Re: DA

[thewakokid]

... What do you think suicide baiting is?

And no.

I made a comment in a post asking for secrets stating that IF an idea that is prevalent, and seems to be ubiquitous, among the feminist community (that evil comes exclusively from men and if men were gone evil would disappear) were more wide spread so and I believed most WOMEN as a whole believed it to be true I would feel hopless enough to end my life.

I mean, if you're gut reaction to that is "He's blaming feminism for his mental health, I must protecc feminism!" you clearly got an agenda.

But even if your massive misacharaterisation of what I said was true (It's not. Re-read my comment critically looking at what I meant instead of picking up the buzzwords and filling in the blanks yourself) even if I was saying "Feminism is to blame for my suicidal ideation" that would STILL not be suicide baiting.

Re: DA

[thewakokid]

Just for example, if you saw a thread started by some MRA saying "Women are only good for sex" and you saw a load of MRAs replying to it agreeing, would that not depress you?

Would it not be fair to say "If I thought all men thought like this my mental issues would compell me to blow my brains out"?

That's not you attacking MRA's that not you blaming MRA's for feeling suicidal.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not trying to prove you wrong. I think the post could easily be read that way, even if you didn't intend it that way, even if it's just suicidal ideation.

But if you didn't mean it as suicide baiting, I still think that the patterns here are consistent. Focusing on and overemphasizing the negative; obsessing over the most negative possible interpretations of feminism; not engaging with people who try to engage with you in good faith about feminism and mental health, and instead arguing with the most negative people; catastrophizing; not taking your own mental health seriously. And doing those things over a very long period of time. These seem like very consistent behaviors from you. It comes across like you're just interested in asking the same questions about feminism and mental health over and over again, and then fighting with the most negative responses.

Again, IDK man, I don't know you personally. You do you.

Re: DA

[thewakokid]

Ok, I think we need to clear up the key misunderstanding here: "I'm suicidal for [x] reason" is not suicide baiting

Suicide baiting is if a person tells you they are suicidal for [x] reason, you come back with "Well [x] reason is a very good reason to kill yourself. Why don't you will yourself?"

It is baiting someone who is suicidal into killing themself.

That, I have never done which is may main point.

But side points have been brought up and I'd like to address them too.

"obsessing over the most negative possible interpretations of feminism"

Is not what I am doing. I am talking about 1 specific incident that shows one specific mindset that is found, imo, exclusively in a branch of feminism. I am, in point of far, saying that my comfort in relation to this mindset is that it is NOT the wide held view.

"not engaging with people who try to engage with you in good faith about feminism and mental health"

Like who?

I mean, unless you're talking about all the shitty comments and kind comments I got last night while I was sleeping, I didn't want to respond to everyone when I woke up so I made a separate comment thanking the nice people and telling the cunts to go bugger themselves.

Since I woke up I responded to everyone. Even the people who're not exactly doing anything in good faith.

"catastrophizing"

Might be fair to say I was doing that last night when I was feeling low. I'm sorry I guess?

"not taking your own mental health seriously. And doing those things over a very long period of time"

I mean... you don't know what I am doing for my mental health. What you do know is that when people on FS come to me saying "You're mentally Ill, you need to get help" I tell them to go bugger them-self, because, I think you must be able to see that when people online do that, they are not concerned about helping you. They do not what you to take your mental health seriously, they want to shame you for what you said, it's a cunts way of saying "I disagree with you, but I also want to make people not take you seriously and imply that you're not just wrong, but fundamentally broken" and make it look like they care about mental health. I mean... you know this, right? You know when people say that they are not giving you healthcare advice. they are attacking you. I know you know all that, there is no plausible deniability there.

You KNOW that, but what you don't know is what I am doing for my mental health.

When someone says "You're mentally ill you need to get some help" and I don't respond with "You're right, my opinion IS invalid, I will disapear until I think the same things you think" that is not me ignoring my mental health.