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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-12-28 07:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #4376 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4376 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[MCU]


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03. [broken link]


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[Hjørdis and Uffe on Rita]


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08. [WARNING for discussion of rape]



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09. [WARNING for discussion of RL death]



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10. [WARNING for non/dub-con]
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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #626.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

[personal profile] fscom 2018-12-29 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
09. [WARNING for discussion of RL death]
https://i.imgur.com/gk1BMXW.jpg

(Anonymous) 2018-12-29 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
I’m sorry for your loss, OP.

(Anonymous) 2018-12-29 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry for your loss OP. I get how you feel, both my parents are gone too. And since I was young, most of my friends had no idea how to deal with it. It's not just funerals and stuff, it's anything remotely tied to it: I remember going on a date to see Brave and the guy thought it was amazing I could manage it since it was all about mother/daughter bonding and stuff. Awkward as hell. It's not like it doesn't register or touches you, but you'd rather it go by unremarked? At least that's how I feel.

Maybe it's because I'm getting older or have moved on somehow or I don't know, but as the years pass more moments like that actually do hit their target. Some kids will be sad about their dead mom and I'll be weeping with them. I still feel self-conscious, but not as much?

Important to remember is that those scenes are often put in because they're sad and important to a lot of people. That pretty much everyone deals with this somehow. But, like with a joke where not everyone has the same sense of humor, not everyone cries about the same things.

Like I said, I actually do cry now once in a while, and I take that self-conscious feeling as permission, almost. Like, hey, I have good reason to be sad at this part and I'm going to let it out. Whereas sometimes I feel silly crying over fiction even if I know it's not and lots of people do it.

(Anonymous) 2018-12-29 05:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry for your loss. I completely understand what you mean. Someone I loved died a few years ago, and for the longest time there were movies I couldn't watch, tv shows I had to take a break from, songs I couldn't listen. I wish I could say I moved past it and all those movies and tv shows and songs are now cathartic to me, but I'm not there yet.