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Sum up your year - would you say it's overall been a good one, or... not so much?

Good overall. Kept my job, bought a house. Ending pretty shitty though. =(

): how is your sister? (iirc it was your sister? the one relative that had to go into the ER with appendicitis)

She had to have emergency surgery, she did have appendicitis. :( So now she is pretty miserable. Thank you for asking!

Not bad overall.

On balance, I'd say it was a good year for me because I bought a house (a process that took up nearly the whole year) but absolutely nothing else in my life changed and I didn't do anything else new or out of the ordinary. The house isn't even much different than the appartment I was living in previously. Kind of a boring year, really.

probably overall bad

i mean, not actually bad - if anything it's been the very definition of average; i've still got a job, and a roof, and my health, etc - but ultimately my failure to get on with any of the things i actually need to get on with in my life has to be regarded as a bad thing

Pretty good year. My loved ones and I are all relatively healthy and financially secure. Got my (paid for) car totalled by a stupid teenager, but I also had two wonderful vacations. Work was tolerable.

I certainly could have done more this year. After 40, they really start to become a blur.

Overall bad. Didn't get any of the jobs I wanted, an internet friend of over 6 years just disappeared on me (I fear something has happened to her) and my cat died on my birthday two weeks ago.

Only good thing was a vacation in Venice.

TERRIBLE. I'm ready to move forward.

Bit shit, tbh
My cat had to be put down a few months back, and we just put down my dog this Friday past

Also my doctor (or their office, I'm not sure who to blame here) is really shit at getting in touch when they say they will, so I keep getting sent for test, then waiting weeks and weeks for the doctor to contact me about the results, when *they* get the results within 48 hours :(

Terrible. One of the worst so far, personally.

Not great, almost entirely because of work.

For three years I've been working towards a bump up the ladder that was going to get me much better pay the majority of the time. But in 2018 the union changed things, and now the same bump up the latter is going to get me dick all, most of the time.

Also, the mad overtime that used to be a standard part of the job has been cut way back.

It was such a lousy bait-and-switch on the industry's part, and now I don't know if it's even worth sticking with the job.

It's been a year.

Absolute shit. Death in the family, got let go from my job and haven't found one that pays as much or with benefits. Holidays were sad and stressful. I'm ready for 2018 to be over.

Bad year. My dog died and I found out I have no real family or friends that would let me sleep on their floor when I become homeless.

Overall... a mixed bag, I guess?

Good - Had a reunion with some family members I hadn't seen in years in the summer, the summer itself was gloriously sunny, I got given more hours and responsibility at my job, and we had an awesome housemate for a few months who I got on great with.

Bad - My partner's dad has been diagnosed with incurable cancer, my cat had to be put down, my depression reached some really scary lows, and my dependence on alcohol and other substances is probably worse than it's ever been.

It's been pretty great! Lost 75 pounds, got a new job, got my depression properly medicated!

Overall good - I still have my job and my apartment and I'm even managing to usually keep my apartment clean. And planning my big trip has been fun, though the trip itself is next spring.

I still haven't done anything in the way of getting actual face-to-face friends or dates. (OK dates is an impossibility and I might as well admit that.) And sometimes that gets me extremely depressed.

I try to be thankful for what I do have. A few years ago I thought I'd never have my own apartment again. But it's hard to say it's been a great year when I spent so much of it sitting around alone and wishing I weren't.

It was okay. It could've been better, but it could've been worse too. I've been in a black hole of depression for most of the year, but at least it's not 2016, amirite?

But! I just realized I experienced a glitch it the Matrix earlier this year, so now I'm super-happy. :3

overall a good one with minor hiccups. i started out the year with one of those mood-maps: color the day in a calender with how the day was. green for good, blue for neutral, red for bad, grey for bland/boring, glittery for exceptionally great days. It was recommended by my therapist as one of the methods to keep track of my mood. She recommended a method that uses one of my skills / hobbies (i like those adult coloring books) and to apply it to an easy task that can be done in under 1 minute.
I asked for something like that because i was afraid of relapsing and not noticing it quickly enough.

Turned out that i forgot to color around mid april, and have been doing it shoddily before, as in "was that a good or a neutral day" and as soon as i saw that there were basically only one or two bad days in weeks, i stopped doing it. So overall the year has been good to me.
My cats are healthy, i got a salary raise/minor promotion/recognition at work that translated into more money).
Downsides were that I had to cut ties with a person i had been friends with since high school (she became more and more toxic over time and we didn't click anymore)

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