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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-01-18 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #4397 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4397 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[She-Ra: The Princesses of Power]



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[Mystic Messenger]


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04. [SPOILERS for Steven Universe episode "Escapism"]



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05. [WARNING for discussion of abuse]

[Utawarerumono]


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06. [WARNING for discussion of animal abuse]



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07. [WARNING for discussion of rape]



















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(Anonymous) 2019-01-19 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
So you can't support women's fantasies because of men's view on them?

That is all kinds of fucked up.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-19 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
"It's not fair that women should be shamed for having fantasies and it's not fair that we're all lumped together like this when I have absolutely no desire to be submissive nor do I have rape fantasies. It's just all a mess for me."

I said it right there that I don't think it's fair that women get shamed for their fantasies because of men being shit. But I'm lumped into that mindset men have of us by virtue of being female and it puts me at risk. I put the blame entirely on men, though, not on the women who have rape fantasies. I have a shit ton of issues with men tbh.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-19 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
Right? It's like saying you can't support gay marriage because homophobes and assholes say shitty things about the "gay agenda".

(Anonymous) 2019-01-19 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
You are legitimately dumb. OP is clearly blaming men.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-19 05:36 am (UTC)(link)
Yep. And yet somehow OP still "can't support" the people who aren't to blame. You don't find that weird and irrational at all?

(Anonymous) 2019-01-19 03:33 am (UTC)(link)
DA. That's...that's not an apt comparison at all.

Like I said in my actual comment, it's not fair that women get shamed for their rape fantasies, but those fantasies do put other women like myself at risk. It's 100% the fault of men and I hate that we live in a society where women saying "oh, I have fantasies about rape, but they're literally just fantasies and I would never want to be raped in real life" gets interpreted as "LOL all women want to be raped, they secretly crave it" by a lot of men. I think I have every right to be terrified when I see men espouse this shit on an uncomfortably large scale.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-19 04:34 am (UTC)(link)
DA - I don't entirely agree with what you're saying, but I do absolutely understand why you feel the way you do, and can empathize.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-19 05:38 am (UTC)(link)
And I don't believe anyone's suggested you don't have every right to be terrified of men who espouse such repugnant beliefs, did they? They (and I) are merely pointing out how strange it is that while you place the lion's share of the blame on men, you still reserve a bit of blame for rape fantasies, as if having them is somehow wrong and unsupportable.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-19 08:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Men's views on this (scarily common, not just on the above asshole-magnet sites) are 100 times more fucked up, but hey,you carry on supporting that external and internalised misogyny.