[ SECRET POST #4399 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4399 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Cassandra Clare & her books: TMI/TID/TDA]


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[Doctor Who]


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[Canadian ice dancers Tessa Virtue and Scott Moir]


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[Charmed]


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[Criminal Minds - season 4, episode 8 "Masterpiece"]


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07.
[Tidying Up with Marie Kondo]











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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I think it is creepy too, but for another reason: I hate her plastered-on smile with a vengeance. She seems so utterly uncomfortable and contrived that I halfway pity her and halfway resents her dishonesty.

[(Anonymous)]

How do you know she's dishonest? Maybe she's not comfortable in front of the camera?

My smile in photos ALWAYS looks fake because I hate 'posing' for photos. I'm not being dishonest, I just don't know what to do with my face when people say 'stand there and smile!!'

[(Anonymous)]

Do you make a living being in front of a camera?

[(Anonymous)]

I do not, but I might come across fake nice in my job because it's literally my job to interact with people but I am not comfortable doing it? Just because you do something doesn't necessarily mean you're comfortable doing it...

[(Anonymous)]

Kondo isn't an actress or professional TV host, she's a consultant who wound up getting a TV show.

[(Anonymous)]

when you look in my eyes then you laugh xx

[(Anonymous)]

+1

I mean I wouldn't call it creepy, but I couldn't get past the first episode because I found her so unlikeable. The glued-on smile, the hokey little ceremony at the beginning, the thanking of inanimate objects, yuck. And I'm sorry to say the language barrier is also a bit jarring and off-putting in a show like this, where deep communication with your clients is as important as if you were their therapist.

It's a shame because I found the family and their plight in the first episode sympathetic, and I love watching those shows for the human aspect, and I'm sure I would enjoy the other families similarly, but I just can't get over my dislike for MK.

[(Anonymous)]

People doing things based on different cultural backgrounds sure is terrible and "yuck"!

[(Anonymous)]

So you're saying that glued-on smiles, hokey tidying ceremonies, and thanking inanimate objects is a distinctly cultural thing?

[(Anonymous)]

Yes. Especially for the second and last points, look up animism in Japanese culture. For the first one: Look up smiling in Japanese culture as opposed to American culture.

[(Anonymous)]

My bad, I thought it was a dumb marketing ploy to sell books.

Anyway, she's no Niecy Nash, and if that's ~~~culturally insensitive~~~ idgaf tbh.

[(Anonymous)]

thanks for the hot take, brenda, enjoy the pta bake sale

[(Anonymous)]

Look up Orientalism. You're doing it.

[(Anonymous)]

Those things don't have anything to do with Orientalism, nice try.

[(Anonymous)]

Ayrt

It's quite amazing you throw -isms around even though you don't have a clue what you're talking about.

[tabaqui]

Huh. The first couple, to me, seemed like idiots, acting as if they were the only two people in the world with kids (not even babies, but kids old enough to walk and talk) and it was just so overwheeeeeeeelming...... Meh.

I didn't like them at all.

[(Anonymous)]

Their kids were nightmares. As a person who is voluntarily childless, I totally sympathized with them. I wouldn't last an hour in that house.

Obviously YMMV.

[tabaqui]

Their kids were only nightmares because of the parents, usually. If you don't ever set rules and have schedules for little kids, they tend to be wild as March hares and that's on mom and dad, not them.

I love my daughter, got through her baby and toddler years with a minimum of hysterics, but don't ask me to babysit or even hold your kid; most of them are spoiled monsters.

[(Anonymous)]

I had the opposite problem, I couldn’t get through the first episode because Mari is so polite and bright and traditionally demure, and the Friends were loud and self-absorbed and ignorant. As an American I was painfully embarrassed by them. Thankfully in the second episode the family was Japanese-American and it was much less abrupt, they knew a little of her language and customs and the difference in behavior wasn’t so jarring. I haven’t braved any others yet.

[(Anonymous)]

I've been seeing a lot of people on twitter pointing out the MK hate was mostly racist, and I think I can see why now. Thanks for that demonstration I guess.

[(Anonymous)]

Lol, what the fuck. How is she dishonest? Because she doesn't smile exactly how you want her to? You are such a sad person.

[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT but she comes across as phony to me, too, like she pretends to be enjoying herself a lot more than she is.

[(Anonymous)]

Take notice the next time you watch her and I'm sure you'll see it too.

[(Anonymous)]

Lmao OP's the sad person and you're not for getting this butthurt over a secret? Y I K E S

Nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

Look in the mirror