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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-01-27 02:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #4406 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4406 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-01-27 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Reading all these comments, and anon's responses, I 100% believe that this celebrity is probably ignoring their comments and approaches in person because they give off creepy stalker vibes.

Anon, STEP AWAY FROM YOUR OBSESSION FOR A BIT. Your attitude about this is only making you creepier, unlikable, and honestly really gross. I wouldn't want to acknowledge someone so hateful, either. Think of this celebrity's personal feelings, and also what it would look like if they acknowledged someone like you that behaves in this way?

Even if this person received the attention after the fact, the way you are acting toward them is only going to put you farther and farther away from this celebrity. And I'll be real with you - You aren't entitled to their attention. You aren't ever going to be anything to them on the level that they mean to you - you have a crush and realistically your emotions can't evolve beyond that into a relationship, if that's what you're expecting. Have some perspective.

And how do you deal with these feelings? Get therapy. Analyze why you feel this way and ask yourself how you can change for the better. Recognize that you're not entitled to the attention so that when you feel this bitterness well up, you can step the fuck away and do something else to distract yourself, or you will never ever get over it.