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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-01 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #4411 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4411 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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08. [SPOILERS for Crazy Ex Girlfriend]



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09. [SPOILERS for You]
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-02 08:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Exhibitionism/public sex is one of those things where I'm fine with it as a kink, but putting it into practice can run up against the fact that you may be involving people in your sex acts without their consent. No, seeing a couple of consenting adults having sex is not traumatic and it's nothing on the order of being touched without consent (and I was an apartment dweller long enough to know that it's really hard to completely shield everyone around you from the fact that you're having sex because even if you're super quiet there may still be bed rattling or other signs) but still. If you're doing it on purpose because you get off on it, that means you are using other people to get off (as opposed to fantasizing about them without ever letting on) and they will realize you are using them to get off without them being asked or given the opportunity to participate on their own terms and have their own needs addressed.