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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-02 03:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #4412 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4412 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Miss Kobayashi's Dragon Maid]


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[Haunted (on Netflix), "The Slaughterhouse"]


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[Criminal Minds]


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[The Promised Neverland]


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[British rapper Big Narstie]


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[Criminal Minds season 4, episode 13, "Bloodline"]


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[Angelina Jolie in Lara Croft: Tomb Raider]












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Re: Should I become a single mother

[personal profile] chamonix 2019-02-02 10:26 pm (UTC)(link)
This is tricky, because the advice of "try fostering or caring for kids beforehand" is not necessarily the answer to how much you'll enjoy your own kid, though it will probably be invaluable practice for the sheer physical and mental toil. But before I had my two daughters, I wasn't particularly interested in other people's children. I knew that my vision of the future involved having a similar family to the one I'd grown up in (mother, father and one sibling) but I was enjoying my life and it actually took my husband pushing the issue for me to take the plunge. My vision has now become a reality and while I would literally claw my own face off for my own children, other people's kids still don't elicit any sort of "baby fever" in me. I guess what I'm saying is, don't consider it a total deal-breaker if a fostering experience doesn't awake rampant maternity in you. It doesn't mean you won't feel it for your own children if and when they come along.