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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-02 03:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #4412 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4412 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Miss Kobayashi's Dragon Maid]


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[Haunted (on Netflix), "The Slaughterhouse"]


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[Criminal Minds]


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[The Promised Neverland]


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[British rapper Big Narstie]


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[Criminal Minds season 4, episode 13, "Bloodline"]


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[Angelina Jolie in Lara Croft: Tomb Raider]












Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 50 secrets from Secret Submission Post #632.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Should I become a single mother

(Anonymous) 2019-02-03 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
I suppose it's a good sign that it's not the baby I want as much as the preteen and the teen and the adult? I don't think my ideas of babies are particularly romantic, but I like the idea of an older child around. I'd be ready to sacrifice a lot for the family I have, so I assume I'll feel the same if I ever have a child.

Re: Should I become a single mother

(Anonymous) 2019-02-03 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT—honestly fostering/adoption of a preteen sounds like a better fit for you, tbh. Any reason you specifically want a bio kid?

Re: Should I become a single mother

(Anonymous) 2019-02-03 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
Adoption is hella expensive and almost exclusively for straight couples where I am, and fostering comes with a host of (reasonable!) requirements and is unlikely to be permanent :(

Re: Should I become a single mother

(Anonymous) 2019-02-03 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know that it's a good sign, to be honest. It's great to look forward to the challenges and joys of a preteen/teen/adult but... you've got a decade of baby/toddler/little kid to get through first and those are some pretty crucial years in terms of child development. The first three years can be a brutal challenge even for people who thought they love the idea of babies. How's it going to be for someone who doesn't have that background?