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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-02 03:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #4412 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4412 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Miss Kobayashi's Dragon Maid]


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[Haunted (on Netflix), "The Slaughterhouse"]


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[Criminal Minds]


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05.
[The Promised Neverland]


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[British rapper Big Narstie]


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07.
[Criminal Minds season 4, episode 13, "Bloodline"]


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[Angelina Jolie in Lara Croft: Tomb Raider]












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Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2019-02-03 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
No. And your roommate kind of sucks if he/she thinks that you should just shut up and agree to be picked on and bullied. Re: the previous comment... how much do you vent to your roommate on this topic? Because the "suck it up" might be an indication that your roommate is tired of hearing the same complaint, even if they believe it's 100% valid.

If you feel you can, it'd probably be more effective to tackle the bully directly:

"Wow, that came a little passive aggressive."
"Rude."
"It's 2019 and 98% of our blockbuster films are about comic book superheroes. It's not weird to like [nerdy thing]."
"You sound like a high school bully in an 80s movie."

Refuse to be cowed. You're fine, your classmate is the insecure asshole. treat her as such, like she just said something rude and kind of embarrassing, because that's what she did. Laugh if you can. And exit the conversation, shaking your head over her immaturity.

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2019-02-03 04:25 am (UTC)(link)
Point out that it's rude, yeah, but please don't use those comebacks. They're terrible and will get you bullied more.

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2019-02-03 05:18 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT but I mean, pointing out the fact that superhero comics pretty much rule the box office right now is pretty factual and not terrible imo?

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2019-02-03 05:30 am (UTC)(link)
It's too long winded and hyperdefensive. Comes off as something you'd read in a "and then everybody clapped" story but when the showdown actually actually happens, it stutters out of your mouth as you try to remember the percentages.

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2019-02-03 05:31 am (UTC)(link)
Lol bully is not a fact-based art omg

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2019-02-03 01:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Fair enough, but if you want to say SOMETHING, and not just look embarrassed and slink away at it being pointed out that you like ~nerdy~ stuff, saying, "Hey, superheros are pretty in right now, so I can't be that wrong," seems fine to me.

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2019-02-03 09:04 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Yeah, all of these sound fine to me. Maybe shorten a couple of them down a little, but the basic point of each is completely legit. The real thing about jibes, I think, is that you have to tailor them to be something you'd say. So I might not say, "It's 2019, nerdy things are cool now," but I would say, "Excuse you, nerdy stuff's awesome."