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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-02 03:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #4412 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4412 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Miss Kobayashi's Dragon Maid]


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[Haunted (on Netflix), "The Slaughterhouse"]


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[Criminal Minds]


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05.
[The Promised Neverland]


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[British rapper Big Narstie]


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[Criminal Minds season 4, episode 13, "Bloodline"]


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[Angelina Jolie in Lara Croft: Tomb Raider]












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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2019-02-03 05:55 am (UTC)(link)
First of all: you're not whiny. This person is being shitty to you. You don't deserve that, and they're not right to do it. I'm sorry that they are doing it. They sound like a dickhead. And your roommate isn't doing a good job of being a supportive friend.

At the same time - your practical options for getting a dickhead to stop acting like a dickhead are, unfortunately, pretty limited. It's not really something that you can control, necessarily, if someone is really committed to it. So there are a lot of cases where the most practical thing to do is to ignore it.

And that sucks. And ignoring it sucks. And it's not the way it should be, and it's not ultimately a reflection on you, and I'm sorry that the world has to be this way. And if it feels like shit, and if you ever want to vent about it, that's totally justified on your part - it's not the result of you doing anything wrong. (And if you do want to talk about it, we're always here).

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2019-02-03 06:08 am (UTC)(link)
You can still be whiny about totally undeserved, shitty luck if you’re over fixating on it as if you’re the only one injustice occurs to. Sometimes a good friend lets you know when the self pity has gone too far instead of letting you simmer in it. We can’t exactly say from here.