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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-03 03:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #4413 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4413 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-03 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not very considerate of them but by their reaction they ARE telling you they've lost interest. I don't think there'd be any point to bringing it up because what would you want from that exchange? You know they've lost interest. You've seen that they have. Is it really important to you to hear it explicitly and directly from their mouths? Because there really isn't a way to extract that from your friend without making it awkward.

There's a saying called "drop the rope". It applies to relationships that are meant to be reciprocal, but in fact one person is putting in most of the effort for little to no return. That person usually ends up feeling sad, resentful, angry, etc. at the other person who isn't pulling their weight. But the solution is simple: drop the rope.

Find more writer friends who are interested and engaged in giving you the feedback you want. Don't waste time trying to get it from someone who isn't willing to give it.

(Anonymous) 2019-02-03 10:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Yyyyyyyyep, this.

OP

(Anonymous) 2019-02-04 06:25 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you.
Yeah, I decided I won't be brigning it up after all, because you're right, I don't really need a reaction, it's pretty clear how it is. Just gonna move on.