[ SECRET POST #4413 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4413 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I expect good hygiene and maybe a little grooming. Apart from that, the amount of hair a person has anywhere on their body is their choice (or biology), not mine. And I expect the same courtesy and respect when it comes to my body hair.

[rosehiptea]

This this this!

[philstar22]

Oh I totally agree with this. Personal choice, always. I personally am not attracted to body hair, but I'd never ask someone to shave it off for me. Their body, they get to decide how much hair they have.

[(Anonymous)]

I'd never ask someone to shave it off for me.

I would. Although not for nothing in return. But I'd have no problem having a quid-pro-quo conversation with a guy about hair removal. He wants my legs, armpits, and bush taken care of? Cool. I'll even take requests for how the bush gets done. But in exchange, he can do his chest for me, and keep his own pits and bush from getting too wild.

I wouldn't be like, "Listen babe, it's shave or GTFO." But I wouldn't have any problem making it known that if he has preferences, so do it.

[philstar22]

Oh yes, if they want me shaved, I'm probably going to ask that it go both ways. But a discussion is different than a demand. I guess I used the wrong word. I might ask in the context of a conversation about likes/dislikes and such. But it would be a conversation. It would be me insisting it because it is their body and I'm not going to dictate anything to them.

[(Anonymous)]

Okay, yeah. In that case I totally agree with you, and same. :)

[(Anonymous)]

For some couples this might work. For me it doesn't. If they want me shaved, the answer is no. Ain't gonna do it. I've tried it in the past and I don't like it.

It's like - "you're hot but you'd be hotter if you had blonde hair. Can you dye it for me?" "you're hot but you'd be hotter if you lost/gained 10 pounds, can you do that for me?" "You're hot but you'd be hotter if you wore clothes I like instead of clothes I don't, can you do that for me?"

I CAN, but I won't. There's plenty of fish in the sea, you will be happier swimming elsewhere.

[philstar22]

And that's cool. I'd never tell someone they have to or even suggest it outside of a mutual conversation about personal likes. I'd also never say any of those things to a partner because that's not cool. I might say that I find a particular thing attractive because we all have likes and dislikes. But I'd never say that someone would need to do something to be hotter because it is their body and hot is subjective.

[(Anonymous)]

I just cannot imagine having a conversation about my opinions on someone else's body and their opinions on mine like that. From either end. The whole idea of telling someone what I want done with THEIR OWN body hair, or what they want done with MINE, sets off so many control-related alarms in my head.

I'm a what-you-see-is-what-you-get person (who is generally positive-to-neutral on body hair), and I'd expect my partners to feel the same way about themselves. Whether I shave or not...it's not up to them. Never has been, never will be. And whether they shave or not...is also very much not up to me, nor should it be.