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⌈ Secret Post #4419 ⌋

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[Roxane Gay (author)]

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[Pokemon]

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[Jonathan Groff in Mindhunter (formerly King George III in Hamilton)]

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[The ABC Murders]

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[Zac Efron as Ted Bundy in Extremely Wicked, Shockingly Evil, and Vile]

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[Marcus Wareing, Gordon Ramsay - Burning Point (documentary)]

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[Parks and Recreation, Ben/Leslie]

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Ugh, that's awful. I think it's unfortunately an outdated idea that still persists now that "family is family" and they can basically do no wrong. Family are people and people do messed up things, and the idea that they should still be loved/respected because ~family is off to me. I'm so, so sorry your mum had to go through something like that. :(

I used to work in care so I often saw a lot of conflicting emotions in family after a death. Some "I loved them, but they were suffering and the dementia changed them, so at least now they'll be at peace," but a lot of "we've actually never really gotten along" and a sort of relief. One lady's daughter told me after her mum passed that even before the dementia, she was an incredibly angry person and was physically abusive to her and her siblings growing up.

It's still a really tough situation to be in. Wishing you and your dad all the best.

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