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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-14 07:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #4424 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4424 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-15 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
Alright, this whole secret is based on a personal anecdote from OP, so here is my personal anecdote to counter. I've got 7 aunts. 3 of them wanted kids and had them. Good for them! 1 of them wanted kids and couldn't have them. Boo! 1 of them got married and had kids because that was the thing to do in the 70s. She likes being a mom, but recently realized that she's probably asexual. Wouldn't undo having kids, but in a world with less strictures about such things, would probably have chosen adoption over the physical creation of other human beings. 1 got knocked up in high school and has made the best of it. She's a pretty decent mom, all things considered, but didn't choose to have additional children once she grew up a little and got a handle on how birth control worked. 1 is married, child-free and loving the freedom to travel with her husband and dogs.

So it's not really a biological imperative, so much as it's a matter of personal preference and circumstances. If you're really that bitter about your womb for rent, you could probably do something about it though.