[ SECRET POST #4436 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4436 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 21 secrets from Secret Submission Post #635.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom]

02. https://i.imgur.com/UBGQIYg.png

[(Anonymous)]

Um yeah, her problem has absolutely nothing to do with BDSM or FSOG.

[(Anonymous)]

Random, but I totally read "FSOG" as "FROG" at first and was briefly confused :p.

[(Anonymous)]

What's FSOG?

[(Anonymous)]

Fifty Shades of Grey

[(Anonymous)]

Relationships where the man becomes emotional abusive and manipulative always make me laugh.

OP's goes beyond "not being a nice person" into asshole territory.

[(Anonymous)]

Agreed, everything about OP's secret rubs me the wrong way.

[(Anonymous)]

Maybe OP is glad that lady is realizing it and hopefully getting out of a relationship with an asshole? That was my reaction.

[tabaqui]

Oh, please.

[(Anonymous)]

Life is a lot better if you wean yourself off of the delicious outrage teat.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry but how in the WORLD is a live-in submissive, especially one presumably sharing a goddamn bed with your husband, NONSEXUAL?

Like, WTF?

[rosehiptea]

It technically doesn't say that he's in the submissive's bedroom, just that he's not in the master bedroom, but that's certainly a reasonable conclusion.

But while I understand that 50 Shades of Grey is messed-up in any number of ways I have to agree with the poster above that it is really not the main problem here.

[(Anonymous)]

It technically doesn't say that he's in the submissive's bedroom, just that he's not in the master bedroom, but that's certainly a reasonable conclusion.

I just don't know where else he would be? Regardless, your dom husband having a sub is sexual and extramarital. I think part of the schadenfreude for me in that letter is her repeated insistence of "my husband's NONSEXUAL sub", which is just a non sequitur.

Like does she mean there's just no PIV sex between them? GOD, what a trainwreck if this letter is true.

But while I understand that 50 Shades of Grey is messed-up in any number of ways I have to agree with the poster above that it is really not the main problem here.

Agreed. I'd say the letter writer was a clueless dolt, but as someone else mentioned, her husband is the real problem here.

Dear Abby's response was pretty perf. My thoughts exactly, really.

[(Anonymous)]

Non sexual power exchange exists though. Like. That's a thing. There are a LOT of kinks that can have nothing to do with sex.

But yeah, the husband is an ass.

nayrt

[(Anonymous)]

Mmmmmm...if it's a kink and you're getting off on it, I'd say it's still sexual even if you're not actually ~having sex~ with the other person.

(saying this as somebody who's never had physical sex with anyone but has certainly experienced being aroused by and getting off on being controlled by someone else)

[(Anonymous)]

I'm oddly pleased that someone else still reads Dear Abby.

[analise]

What I find myself wondering is the letter writer says she was the one who broached the topic of being interested in trying out BDSM...and then it jumps to her husband wanting them to have a live-in submissive.

Like...what does the wife get out of this? Was she hoping to be the submissive or did hubby tell her she could domme the live-in?

Like...seriously...wtf?

(yes, I know that isn't the most wtf-y thing about that letter but I really do find myself wondering how they went from wife wanting to explore the lifestyle to them having a third person in their "relationship" that she apparently has nothing to do with)