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⌈ Secret Post #4446 ⌋

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Well, I've been both, and not being a feminist is more enjoyable than being a feminist. The latter involves a lot of anger and victimhood and hyper-scrutiny of media and infighting and generally just makes me miserable.

Feminism doesn’t have to involve any of that shit. I consider myself a feminist and donate to Planned Parenthood and think paid maternity/parental leave should be mandatory and that the gender (and race!) pay gap is bullshit and a whole laundry list of other stuff including wishing there were more female characters in ensemble movies and getting angry sometimes, but I don’t make myself miserable about it. Admittedly I get depressed about the state of the world sometimes, but I can’t very well ignore it; the world won’t let me.

And sometimes I like to imagine a world where telling women to smile was at least a misdemeanor, or I could get away with punching guys without facing assault charges, like the one who told me to smile when I’d just left the hospice care home where my mom was dying.

Having a reductive view about anything would make it seem extreme.

For what it's worth, I consider myself a feminist and I'm also weary of the perma-victim complex that seems to permeate a lot of the movement.

Feminism is an ideology

Any particular social circle of feminists is not the same as feminism

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