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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-04-01 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #4469 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4468 ⌋

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Have you slept with a friend?

(Anonymous) 2019-04-02 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
Someone who was a solid close friend prior to the sex. What was it like and did your relationship change?

Re: Have you slept with a friend?

(Anonymous) 2019-04-02 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
My best friend and I got drunk and had sex several times. (We're both women. I'm a bisexual-leaning-lesbian and she's straight but with some curiosity for lesbianism, likes yuri and such).

Honestly, she's like my sister. We're super comfortable around each other, we lived together and did everything together. Fooling around with her felt honestly platonic. Like, it was basically masturbating. I don't think we've ever been romantically interested in one another. And nothing would change after.

Re: Have you slept with a friend?

(Anonymous) 2019-04-02 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah. One friend in particular comes to mind. We'd been buddies for a couple years but slowly our paths in life started diverging (work, hanging out with other friends, et cetera) We started fucking around with each other and it was fun but after the sex stopped, we finally drifted apart once and for all. There just wasn't anything in common between us anymore.

Re: Have you slept with a friend?

(Anonymous) 2019-04-02 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, and it definitely changed the friendship, we're married now (and still think of each other as best friends).

Re: Have you slept with a friend?

(Anonymous) 2019-04-02 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
I would hope that your spouse would be your best friend???

Re: Have you slept with a friend?

(Anonymous) 2019-04-02 01:15 am (UTC)(link)
DA - but that's not how it works for everyone.

Re: Have you slept with a friend?

(Anonymous) 2019-04-02 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
Aw, congrats! :)

Re: Have you slept with a friend?

(Anonymous) 2019-04-02 12:35 am (UTC)(link)
I would really like someone to want to have sex with me.
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Re: Have you slept with a friend?

[personal profile] tabaqui 2019-04-02 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
Yup, a few times. It didn't change anything, imo. Still friends.

Re: Have you slept with a friend?

(Anonymous) 2019-04-02 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
No, but I wanted to. I mean, I really, really wanted to.

Re: Have you slept with a friend?

(Anonymous) 2019-04-02 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
Once. We started dating and it was nice, but we broke up fairly soon and that was kind of the end of the friendship. I moved away not long after for career reasons (an opportunity that came up after the breakup), so I don't know it the friendship could have been salvaged in the long run. Don't regret it, though. We would have drifted apart after I moved away, anyway, even if we hadn't gotten together, so it was worth trying.
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Re: Have you slept with a friend?

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2019-04-02 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
yes. we were a couple for a while, then he realized he was really more into guys. we're still very good friends.

Re: Have you slept with a friend?

(Anonymous) 2019-04-02 11:40 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, it was good, now we live together.