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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-04-10 06:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #4478 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4478 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
1. I'm sorry that's been your experience.

2. It shouldn't have to be anybody's experience.

3. It isn't everybody's experience.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
Many women settle because they can't find a man who matches the criteria.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
Many women settle because they're afraid they won't be able to find a man who matches the criteria.

Many women settle because our sexist af society has made them feel like maybe they don't really deserve a man who matches the criteria - like it's asking too much.

Many women settle because their dad treated their mom as less-then-equal, so they don't have a strong template of what to look for.

I don't judge any of these women. They're trying. This shit is tough. Tougher than it should be, I'll absolutely give OP that.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 09:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Many women also aren't perfect themselves and don't necessarily have the moral high ground.