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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-05-25 03:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #4523 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4523 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Sound of Music]


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03.
(Dead by Daylight)


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[The Mummy Returns]


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[Aladdin]


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[Criminal Minds, S05E23 "Our Darkest Hour", S06E01 "The Longest Night"]


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[ReBoot: The Guardian Code]













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Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 38 secrets from Secret Submission Post #648.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Fandom secrets you're too lazy to make...

(Anonymous) 2019-05-26 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
I consider myself a feminist. But I have some very specific likes in porn that are kind of not feminist? I'm a bi woman who is really into breasts, and men fucking a woman's breasts is really hot to me? I'm more likely to imagine myself as the man. But still. It makes me feel icky that I have this kink.

Re: Fandom secrets you're too lazy to make...

(Anonymous) 2019-05-26 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
It's hard for me to picture a way for a kink to be anti-feminist, as long as it's understood to be a kink, and something to be played with sexually in a consenting safe way.

Re: Fandom secrets you're too lazy to make...

(Anonymous) 2019-05-26 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
Purity culture has so tainted feminism and that absolutely breaks my heart. Women are shamed for having sexual urges and desires if they're seen as "impure", which is... most of them. I hate how younger girls who are trying to figure out their own sexualities and bodies and wants are being made so afraid to admit them because of the very women who should be their closest allies.

Sex is messy and imperfect and dirty and that's fine. There is no such thing as a "problematic" kink so long as it's between consenting adults.

And titjobs are fucking hot!

Re: Fandom secrets you're too lazy to make...

(Anonymous) 2019-05-26 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
Same here.

And I'm alienated from the "wlw culture" intersection of fandom in general. I don't find butch women attractive at all, and they can even be a turn-off if they're butch enough. But wlw fandom loves butch female characters and talks about them like this is what wlw like, as opposed to gross straight men who like very feminine women and are all about the T&A in skimpy tops and tight skirts. So, looks like I'm a gross straight man instead of a bi woman, actually.

Re: Fandom secrets you're too lazy to make...

(Anonymous) 2019-05-26 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
I'm bi, but I have very specific types for men and women, and my types are very different and generally very traditionally masculine men and feminine girls.

Re: Fandom secrets you're too lazy to make...

(Anonymous) 2019-05-26 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
What is anti feminist about titjobs?

Re: Fandom secrets you're too lazy to make...

(Anonymous) 2019-05-26 03:01 am (UTC)(link)
I guess maybe the fact that it is focused entirely on male pleasure. Women aren't going to get turned on from the touch part, though clearly the visuals can do it for some women. But it kind of symbolizes sex that is all about men and treats women as objects there for male pleasure.

TMI and NSFW here

(Anonymous) 2019-05-26 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
I'm a terrible feminist. All my sexual pleasure comes from seeing my partner getting pleasure from me. I'll much sooner come from watching a guy react to my titjob than from him giving me head.

Re: TMI and NSFW here

(Anonymous) 2019-05-26 03:15 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think it makes you a terrible feminist. If your partner didn't care about your pleasure, I'd think he was an asshole, though.

Me, I like one-sided sex. Like, this time will be entirely focused on my partner, next time will be entirely focused on me. Something about the entire focus being on one person's pleasure, regardless of which person that is, turns me on.

Re: Fandom secrets you're too lazy to make...

(Anonymous) 2019-05-26 03:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I like futa.

My wife is intersex and futa explicitly has made her feel better about her body, because in it women with dicks (even tho hers is not the full on hermaphroditic thing) are seen as desirable and she's extremely fucked up by how not desirable she's felt for most of her life until discovering it.

I think what matters is taking it and realizing there are ways to claim it as your own.