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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-05-27 06:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #4525 ]


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(Anonymous) 2019-05-28 05:55 am (UTC)(link)
Nayrt

But there are also people who do fetishize gay men, so just dismissing any criticisms as women-hating doesn't seem reasonable either

(Anonymous) 2019-05-28 06:08 am (UTC)(link)
"Having a dog as a pet is very normal and common. It's only a problem if your dog attacks people."

"B-but some pet dogs DO attack people! Are you really trying to normalize dog-owning?!"

(Anonymous) 2019-05-28 06:47 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I'm sure it happens, but personally 99% of the time I have seen people whipping out this claim it's over ships they don't like involving fictional characters or content they don't like, having nothing to do with real life gay men at all.

And the word fetishizing has lost it's originally meaning as well, now typically being used to mean 'find a particular thing attractive.' Finding gay men and relationships appealing and attractive does not automatically mean you are fetishizing them.