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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-08-05 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #4595 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4595 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-08-06 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
It depends on how bad the fight was, what was said and how long it's been since you last spoke with this person. In general, I'd follow this guideline:

* keep it short - don't try to include lengthy explanations of why you acted/said the things you did, or try to spin it too much as you protecting your friend.

* if you think an apology is due your friend, make it and keep that short and sincere without trying to make excuses.

* don't push for reconciliation even if that's what you had in mind.

* don't automatically expect your friendship to return to normal.



I'd probably say something like, "The last time we talked I was in a bad place. I know you were only trying to help, but I wasn't in the right frame of mind for it. I miss our friendship and I hope you're doing well."