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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2008-10-09 02:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #643 ]


⌈ Secret Post #643 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

CITY STUFF → http://lolbuttsex.myminicity.com (I love you chatbox people)

early 'cause I have to go to class, sorry!

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Re: 102

[identity profile] dietotaku.livejournal.com 2008-10-10 06:25 pm (UTC)(link)
you can be in love with someone and not want or need to have sex with them.
i have never experienced this. if i am IN LOVE with someone, it is because (in addition to a kickass personality), i find them physically attractive and therefore want to have sex with them. if i love someone i DON'T want to have sex with, i call that "friendship." or family members. personally, in aang & katara's situation, i think the family thing is more fitting.

Re: 102

[identity profile] kristenell.livejournal.com 2008-10-10 06:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Just because you have never experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't exist, I personally don't see sex as the biggest indicator of whether I am in love someone, it was also not something I wanted at the age of 14 when I wanted to date, granted it is not something I didn't want it just isn't my most pressing need. You can find someone physically attractive and not equate it with sex, just as you can want to have sex with someone but not be in love with them. Relationships are complicated. And I think you need to realize that not everyone is you.

personally, in aang & katara's situation, i think the family thing is more fitting.

And family can mean a lot of things, but I obviously view the relationship different from you, and my main contention was that people who like Aang/Katara are pedophiles or that Katara is a pedophile for liking Aang (when that is not the case). I think people who think that way draw on it because they think shipping is all about sex and the porn when it doesn't have to be.

Re: 102

[identity profile] dietotaku.livejournal.com 2008-10-10 06:43 pm (UTC)(link)
no, that's just the most fun/interesting part of it. ;)

i didn't want sex when i was 14, no, but i also wouldn't have said i was in love with someone - at least not in the "you're the one for me, let's spend the rest of our lives together" sense. i don't mind aang having a crush on katara, of course 12-year-olds get crushes... i just draw the line when they start sucking face.

Re: 102

[identity profile] kristenell.livejournal.com 2008-10-10 07:38 pm (UTC)(link)
I disagree, but different strokes for different folks.

I don't have a problem with them kissing as that is par for the course at their age and don't think there is any problem with their relationship as it stands in canon, which is about as much interest as it goes for me.

I also can't hold them against the 12 and 14 year olds of our world because true I didn't think I was in love with any at 14 years old, but I also wasn't in charge of ending a 100 year war or keeping peace at that age either.